Monday, November 24, 2008
S-I-B-U-K Couple
I have lots of stories to share but must record this one hence the reason i am updating my blog today :)
Will try to keep it simple and short to save my time.
here it goes, recently during my hubby's visit to a nearby dentist while waiting for him i read this interesting article by ust@zah siti norb@yah. it is about busy couple coping with crazy schedule and at the same time still keep up the romance/relationship. the formula is :-
S - SENTUHAN
I - *forgot this one, i think it is for INTIM
B - BELAIAN
U - UNGKAPAN
K - KEJUTAN MANIS
and so i told hubby we should do this.. we hardly have time for each other.
the last time we went out for dating was few months ago.
our life for the time being evolved around the kids, either danial, adam or the twin.
we rather concentrate on how the best way to cut down our expenses, maximise our savings/investment, preparation for danial's school, adam/twin development, working life, and other boring stuff.
After weeks of bugging my hubby finally we went out dating yesterday.
Wehooo, it was only for 3 hours but i really enjoyed it very much.
not to mention the unexpected comments from SA.
we went to this fragrance counter, as my hubby would like to buy a new perfume.
The SA asked us " Are you guys looking for perfume for hantaran ?"
I was like " Hantaran ? "
My hubby saje get along, cakap yes. "
The SA gave us a lot of ideas on how to decor the hantaran not to mention samples, and the perfume decorated nicely with ribbons, and they even ask us, when is your majlis ?
When i went to b0dy sh0p, the SA asked me again for hantaran ke ? and she wrap the yummy sr@wberry toiletries with ribbons and nice box. she even said kalau weekdays we have special box for you. hee hee :)
lawak.
so after months of not dating and we still eligible for not-married-couple-lookalike.
and i wonder what would they say when they see us outing with two strollers, two diaper bags, screaming at the kids, rushing to get our errands done.
it is good to know we are still ahem *young couple* :P
Friday, October 17, 2008
Looking from the positive side :)
sekejap je kan, we have survived the first 6 months, so i guess for the next few months it is workable, well i hope by next year when they reach 1 yr old, they are more independent so less hectic for us sikit. i have plan how to make it work :P
adam is 2 years old and danial going to be standard one next year.
apart from adam mischievous to test his sisters capabilities either strong or not by pijak his adik every now and then, suap his adik his lunch/breakfast when his adik approached him or play with them as if they are big enough/strong enough to play with him when they are just crawling and starting to communicate with each other.
recently during our annually neighbours get-together cum raya open house my neighbours told me that she is planning to go to HUKM to meet up this famous prof who can help her to conceive twin. She told me the fees is around 1.5k to 12k. "Cheap kan, "she said. i think it is using IVF treatment and banyak orang dah buat and it is guarantee you can get a twin, triplets or quadruplets..lagi banyak bayar lagi banyak la dapatnya :P
why am i sharing this ? well i told my mom and she said you should bersyukur banyak banyak you got it naturally or more likely by *accident* hahahhhahah because the third pregnancy is unplanned.
well i am bersyukur and i should bersyukur banyak-bannyak rather than whine eh,
a) my kids are healthy and they are our rezeki
b) that Allah makbul my doa for me to have a baby girl and He gave me two :)
c) i have a supportive hubby who try to help me as much as he can without complaining
d) my maid is helpful too although sometimes ada benda yg i kena pejam mata sebelah jela
e) my parents try to help us every now and then. they always say "kesian on us"
f) my inlaws do help us also when we our backup plans didnt work out as planned but since they live up north susah sikit la nak tolong tu
g) although i am working full time, my boss is very, very understanding. THANK GOD. i have fully utilized my annual leave, every now and then ada je benda "family matters" nasib baik la dia OK, as long as all the tasks/assignment pending is completed :) if i were to work in the old company jangan harap la, mesti dah lama kena brainwash dengan lady boss tu.
when people sees our family they always say "seronoknye" tapi my dad kata seronok tengok bukan seronok jaga :P
but you know it is definitely seronok to shop for the little girls. and i am not the only one yg have fun dressing them up. last raya the twin mak ngah bought this super cute custom made dresses just for the twin, terharu mummy :) yg sakit nya because everything is double expenses. but mommy always ended up shopping for 4...hee hee sebab rasa unfair pulak kalau asyik shopping for twin je.
so i am thankful and grateful for what i have now.
alhamdullilah :)
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Finally an update
i have new ideas on how to cut short my entry on each posting. instead of typing i am going to just post pictures. heee hee save time
sorry TIME is very luxury for me now.
if you read my FB status you might now that i am currently a temporary SAHM.
but do you think i can eat with peace, have long bath, stroll along the shopping malls with twin, oh how i wish that when i can barely eat in peace, sampai nak tercekik most of the time, usually i will eat while holding either sofea/syafiqa, cook while the other hand holding baby again, barely can sleep throughout the night what more nap time, and even to do what i wish to do when i become SAHM (although for temporary)...
sometimes i wonder am i the only mommy who is struggling juggling my twin and other kids, while other mom are doing well ? teruk sangat ke ni ? because someone i know who has twin boys seem not to have big deal with all those sleep-deprived issues, tiredness, and etc..hish i seriously hope i am not the only one who is struggling;
well the other reason why i do not want to write a long entry is because it will ended up as a LONG WHINING ENTRY, and i am sure *my readers, if i have any* would be bored to hear my WHINING story.
for now if i could see a genie i would ask her to grant my three wishes
a) fast forward the time so that twin and my other kids become 2/3 years old and hopefully things a lot easier for me..oh gosh it is so tough sometimes *rasa nak breakdown pun ada sometimes*, although i know i have to go through this i just hope well it will get easier and not so challenging for me *long sigh*
b) let me win the pr0t0n mpv naming contest. and we dont have to worry how to fit in all the four kids comfortably.
c) let me work from home, without having to worry how to pay my bills.
anybody kind enough to grant my 3 wishes ?
b whats happening during puasa and raya time
oh btw selamat hari raya, maaf zahir batin from me and my family :)
Ada idea macam mana nak ambik gambar budak 4 orang ni in their happy mood everytime take picture ada je orang cranky hee hee saba je tak sporting model saya ni
Friday, September 05, 2008
Going to Wedding Reception with the Twin
About 2/3 months back I had a wedding invitation that I could not say NO too. Well The bride is my exschool-mate and we have known each other for about 17 years or, so no matter what I must attend this wedding. Although it means dragging along my four boisterious kids.
The other reason why I could not miss this reception is because I have missed the nikah reception. I was in my confinement period with twin. And so I told hubby no matter what, we have to attend this one by hook or by crook and it is seriously one hell of an experience.
Hubby asked me so how are we going to sort out the kids during the reception ?
The plan was mommy with twin and baba with the boys. Adam must wear his safety harness and if my school mate is around they can be our temporary babysitters so that we can eat if they are not around then errmmm no lunch for us then :)
We arrived pretty early, and to cut the story short my heels decided to "buat perangai" on that exact moment. Grrrrrrr so we have no choice but to make tour to the nearby shophouses to look for my "replacement heels". Saba jela aku, tension aku. And by that time the kids are crying, quarreling and started showing tantrums because they are hungry for LUNCH.
About 1 hour later we arrived at T@bung H@ji dewan again for the reception. The moment we arrived my friends went ooohhh and aaaa over the twin sisters and voluntarily to take care of them. How sweet !!!! We fed the boys and soon after that mommy and baba had lunch.
Come to think of it, it wasnt so bad our first experince going to kenduri with 4 kids. Although I foresee we will only go to kenduri when we know there are potentially temporary babysitters available. *haaahahahah*
Cepat la besar budak budak ni*
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Quickie Update
danial
- he has started going back to school since last week. dah cuti lama sangat tu so bile nak suruh pegi sekola balik he will come out with excuses, and i tell you my eldest ini cukup terer bagi excuses. lucky mummy and baba know danial trick very well so it didnt quite work with us but he can easily get away with his atuk/nenek.
- he still has his chicken pox scars on his neck and body. nasib baik kat muka takde. for now i will sapu the vitamin e oil hopefully eventually it will goes off
- danial loves his younger bro and sisters. whenever i buy things for him, he say he wants to buy one for adam too, he loves to tickle his twin sisters although he still hasn't recognise until today which one is sofea or syafiqa. usually he will adress them as "mummy the one wearing blue shirt is crying" heheh.. i have told him millions time already which one is sofea/syafiqa and how to differentiate his twin sisters cause syafiqa has birth mark but well i guess he just couldnt be bothered as long as he know, he has two babies and love to play with them both. sometimes danial would ask me"does syafiqa has lots of hair?" which i replied "no" and then when look at them he get confused again.
adam
- adam is the only one who is chicken-pox free
- he is still learning how to talk, quite slow for his age but i guess ok la kut, boys mmg slow sikit. the other day his ayah taught him, "mee" and point to "mummy" as in to pronounce "m-u-m-m-y". after few tries adam got it. hee he yay so now he say "mummy" albeit in is his own style which pronounce "mee-mee" Hee, hee takpe la
adam janji ada bunyi sikit sikit tu ok la, mummy happy enough :) - adam ni la yg paling lasak, hyperactive and kuat nangis too. he has 2/3 times purposely pijak his adik(s). kesian baby. twin pun satu mcm takut dengan adam ni sebab abg dia yg sorang ni ganas sangat :P
twin sisters
- they are 4.5 months now. have recovered from chicken pox. Alhamdullilah.
- so finally they are sleeping at night now. i have been sleep deprived for 4 months. every night for the past 4 month i sleep at 2/3 am (earliest) and if they decided to meragam i can only sleep at 5/6 am. In the morning I have to go to work. MasyaAllah, penat tu Allah jela yg tau. I have never experience this kind of severe sleep deprivation, it was soooo tiring i seek advice from my office mate who also has twin boys. but she is sooo lucky her boys sleep throughout the night even from confinement dayss !!! haii saba je aku. Anyways, I can start to sleep at night again now... hehe :)
- they have started to recognise, mummy, baba, the big bros. tapi yg tak percaya tu dah pandai JEALOUS. hee hee tak sangka eh baby pandai jealous. usually their jelaousy is towards mummy eg: once i came back from work, if i dukung syafiqa, sofea tengooookk jee and they later she will cry. same goes if i breastfeed the sofea, nanti syafiqa pun nangis nak breastfeed jugak.
- the most stressful time for me is at night. when both of them want to go to sleep lying down with mommy while breatfeeding. haiiyaa, it is even worse because the ayah is sleeeppyyy-head all the time, stress betul.
The good thing, mummy is back to slim melim mode. hee hee in fact i need to wear belts for my pre-pregnancy jeans. ada hikmah jugak la tak tido malam 4 bulan tu heheh :)
ok will update later byee. will upload latest picture of my kids in my FB :)
Friday, July 18, 2008
Happy 6th Birthday Danial
Three days ago, danial complaint his chest hurt. I took him to see a doctor and the doctor told me there is nothing wrong. The next day after I came back from work I noticed measles coming out from his body, later when we took him to the clinic doctor confirmed that he has chicken pox. Poor him.
Hes been very good despite being sick. He is a very good boy. He doesn't complaint at all. He only cries every now and then, telling me that it is hurt having the chicken pox and also when his temperature is too hot making him difficult to breath. He asked me why did he get the chicken pox and how did he get it ?
It is really sad to see your son sick and knowing the fact you can't do much about it. It breaks my heart to see him cries ( which I ended up crying with him as well) I pray that Allah will answer my prayer so that danial will get well soon.
Happy Birthday Danial. Please get well soon. We will go somewhere special once you are healthy again kay sayang. Mommy love you very much danial.
Monday, June 09, 2008
Dressing Up The Twin Sisters
Friday, May 30, 2008
My Little Princess are Two Months Old
Sometimes when I held them in my arms, I still couldn't believe it that I have twin girl and mommy to 4 lovely kids now. Well Allah gives rezeki in his own special way and I am truly blessed and grateful for what we have now :) Want to see their picture ?
On the left is Sofea and on the right is Syafiqa. Maybe they look identical to you, but in real they are non-indentical.
What I have learnt for the past two months :-
a) More organised, and a better MULTITASKER - (read) handling the twin when they decide to cry at the same time, breastfeeding football style. I learnt to eat in a very quick way (usually 5-10 minutes I have finish my meal), having dinner while breastfeeding the babies, teach danial homework/art while breastfeed, putting adam to sleep while breastfeed baby and the list goes on.
b) CONCEALER is my "new best friend" these days. It is miracle if I could sleep 8 hours straight, which I never had to since 2 months ago. These days I sleep around 4/5 hours max.
c) Ever since become mommy of 4 - I try to give my one-to-one attention to all my kids as best as I could. But it is tough, considering my second hero is still small and I guess he is/was having a tough time to accept the fact that he has two lil sisters. hee hee :) So what I do is, whenever the babies sleep, I maximise spend time with the lil bros and vice versa. Although at this point of time I think the time spend with babies are quite alot compared to spend time with the lil bros. Breastfeeding is time consuming especially when you have two babies !
d) Nowadays I dont really have ME time. I long to read a book or having a quiet ME time. For now our house is like a nursery and the only time it is quiet is when all 4 of them are asleep.
e) I never care the existence of MPV until now. In fact I've been reading motor trader forum about MPVs, and one of our favourite topic these days is MPV. Hahahahah
The thing is Spacious car + Happy kids = Happy parents.
Unlike now
Cramped car + Kids arguing all the time = Mommy ends up having migraine.
f) It is not a good idea to have lunch/dinner with 4 kids at the restaurant. Well you never know until you try it don't you. It wasnt so bad, despite the fact that Sofea decided to vomit on the floor after i Burped her, Adam quarrel with Danial over the free balloon from MacD, Adam purposely make music with the utensils to get attention when Daddy is occupied with food, Adam scream out loud since Danial do not want to share his balloon, and the babies decided to cry at the same time too. But we survived and I laughed at my husband since he looked so stress up after our lunch. I told him, hey it wasnt that bad, at least we still can finish our meal isn't it ?
Will share more of my experience in my next entry. Take care. :)
Friday, September 21, 2007
I am Back
I have great news to share with all of you but am not "brave enough" to say it out loud. But good news to my shelfari's friends you can look for clues.
The clue is check on my "Wish List Books" and you'll get what I mean..
I will try update more and share more stories to come..
There is a lot of "events" that I missed blogging it about like our 7th anniversarry, ramadhan, the kids and my new job.
For the time being I will be bloghopping around the blogspot and wordpress if I found you. I miss efx2 especially all the alerts function :(
Ramadhan Mubarak to all muslims bloggers.
Bye for now
Monday, April 03, 2006
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
The 4 Things
Four jobs I've had:
a) Housekeeper/ Cleaner - Part-Time Job while studying in the UK
b) System-On-Chip Trainee - 3 months during summer placements in Cambridge, UK.
c) R&D Engineer
d) Business Development Engineer - Current
Four movies I can watch over and over:
a) The Story of Us
b) You're Got Mail - I'm a Meg Ryan's Big Fan
c) Sleepless in Seattle
d) Mickey Blue Eyes
Four places I have lived:
a) Newport, South Wales, UK.
b) Loughborough, UK
c) Subang Jaya
d) Penang - *aci tak when visiting Inlaws*
Four television shows I love to watch:
a) CSI Las Vegas, Miami, New York
b) The Apprentice
c) Reality Show (Amazing Race, American Idol, Malaysian Idol, AF)
d) Any Cooking Programme
Four places I have been on vacation:
a) Several places in the UK : Cornwall (paling bess hee hee sort of honeymoon with hubby), Cambridge : this one is actually working but I really enjoy the University Town scenery, weekly Shakespeare Theatre and River Punting, London, Scotland :We went with Inlaws and Danial was
only 8 months old, Oxford, Manchester.
d) Europe and Australia
Four of my favorite dishes:
a) Thai Food + SeaFood
b) Any Sambal Tumis/Sambal Kering
c) Spagetti/Pasta/Lasagne
d) Dessert - Tiramisu + Secret Recipe: Brownies with Ice Cream, Cheesecake, Puding Caramel
e) Laksa + Bihun Sup
** Preggers mummy crazy about Food Lately hee hee
Four websites I visit daily:
a) Gmail
b) Efx2/Blogspot
c) Online Newspaper
d) Google
Four places I would rather be right now:
a) At my house with Danial
b) On vacation with hubby and danial
c) Shopping spree with my mum and sisters
d) Girls Day Out with my Girlfriends or Sisters
Four bloggers I am tagging (that is if you have not been tagged already):
a) Jaja
b) Hot Mama
c) Whoever who wants to update his/her blog
Friday, February 10, 2006
Where was I ?
very quiet ? The reason is I was having some personal-problem-which-I-could not share with you guys bloggers. Anyway the good news is, I am back on my feet now and praying hard I will have an easy pregnancy and delivery so that my normal-hectic-life wouldnt be affected so much with this pregnancy.
I like to share the ups and down of my life for the past few months.
We have decided to enrol Danial for Tumble Tots weekly classes. Dah dekat 3 months Danial pegi playgroup ni and so far he really enjoys it. Mummy is happy for him too, as he is showing
positive improvements, more independent, build up confidence and getting new friends. The only thing he said to me he wants to go to different school where he can do art & craft activity.
Teringat dekat Lorna Wishton . At the moment Mummy try to make it a point to do art & craft activity every Sunday cause Sunday is our relax-quality time with family and cleaning
up weekly mess day. hee hee A few weeks back Danial requested to bake Choc Chip Cookies
Cookies. It was fun experience for him indeed although Mummy die pening betul cleaning up the aftermath mess. Danial tlg bancuh tepung, and masa nak bakar tu die yg bentukkan cookies dalam tray, I have to be very patient and creative in terms of tolerating just whatever shapes turned out to be hee hee.
I am 14 weeks and 6 days pregnant now. My pregnancy experience is totally different compared to the previous one. Masa mula-mula dulu rasa penat giler-giler betul. During that time I really dont know how am I to going through this pregnancy and to squeeze in my daily-hectic schedules. I was so stressed out, emotionally unstable and short tempered. I was having a tough time to be my usual self as wife and mummy to Danial. Alhamdullilah so far things are getting better.
Anyways, the plus point of this pregnancy is so far I dont really have bad nausea. Sebab tak
mabuk sangat kan, I eat like crazy. I think about food day and night, and every now and then
ada je cravings for this for that. Hee hee last 2 weeks my parents, sisters and I went for
lunch at Stadium Merdeka. Makan nasi kandar kari kepala ikan. Simply yummylicious hee hee :) I ingat one of these days nak ajak my hubby pegi high tea la hee hee ? Perhaps can hint for upcoming Valentines eh hee hee :)
I will write more soon. Have a good weekends everybody and to those working in Selangor enjoy your long weekends. Unfortunately I have to work today, *sob sob* KL tak cuti laa :(
Friday, December 23, 2005
Holiday Mood
Destination -> well local but most importantly just want to have some quality time with am and danial together. Most probably we will be heading for Melaka-JB-Singapore-back to kl before heading next to -Undecided-Couple-Getaway then moving up north to Penang to visit Am's parent.
I am so looking forward for our holiday :) I badly need a break from work.
Happy Holidays and Happy New Year.
*Autoreply work email is ON* Woo hooo
Friday, December 09, 2005
Friday, November 25, 2005
Money and Danial's Special Request
not that I am totally over with, well at least for the time being "I can live with it, and I
just want to go with the flow". Come on, lets look at the bright side ? There are people who
are less fortunate than me, It is not the end of the world.
Maybe,
Maybe Not.
If only I dont have to pay for Waja Insurance + Road Tax this month. I have allocated money for it with assumption that &%^%^^&*&*. It just that this month is very, very tight. Sesak perut ni, bukan takat ikat perut je *long sigh*
After all kalau ada rezeki, insyaAllah ada (kena la extra doa ni) and based on my discussion
with boss no1 everything will be smooth flow again. Biasa la hiccups tu here and there kan,
kalau anak menteri ke or bapak aku punye company ke lain la kan, so I'm moving on now :)
Last night out of the blue while we were watching tv, danial request something from me :
Danial : Mummy, I want baby girl
Me : Errr, what ? (just to make sure I heard it correctly)
Danial : I want baby girl
Me : Uhhh *smiling* go ask your Baba
Well I am not going to elaborate on "The making of Baby Girl" hee hee but I like to share
something that I have notice lately. My motherly instinct tells me Danial wants a friend to
play with.
Based on my observation :
- Danial is having more fun when play his thomas train set with his cousin (Dini), and lately
- He just found out he has a friend (who is my mother's neighbour daughter) named Farzana. This little girl is so cute, with her big eyes, natural wavey hair and fair skin. For the past fewdays Danial play with Farzana on daily basis. In fact sometimes when they were both too exhausted they ended up having their afternoon sleep together. *Aduii parah betul le*
I decided to enrol him for Tumble Tots Programme. I have book an appointment for a free trial
session this Saturday afternoon. DH was 80% ok with the idea until the money part came out. I
told him the monthly charges is rm80++ for 4 classes. Each class last for 45 minutes. He commented rm20 for 45 minutes, mahalnye !!! Itu I belum bagitau die lagi yg rm80++ is actually around rm400 upon registration hee hee :P
Haiii saba jele, for the time being we just gonna let danial enjoy his free trial session. If
everything turn out ok, and Baba die cair most probably bule la enrol danial kut. After all he
is going to pay for it :)
Wednesday, November 23, 2005
Jom Keje Sini
2005 Best Employers in Malaysia
Hewitt Associates and its partners congratulated the Best Employers in Malaysia for 2005 at an Award Event in Malaysia on April 20, 2005. Results were published in The Edge on April 25, 2005.
The judges selected 10 Best Employers in Malaysia. The lists are presented in order of ranking:
Best Employers in Malaysia 2005
The Ritz-Carlton, Kuala LumpurDumex (Malaysia) Sdn. Bhd.
SP Setia Bhd.
The Ascott Group Limited
Brunsfield Group of Companies
American Express (Malaysia)
Komag USA (Malaysia) Sdn.
Federal Express Services (M) Sdn. Bhd.
Microsoft (Malaysia) Sdn Bhd
Tenaga Nasional Berhad
Congrats to sis Lollies and Gartblue. Jom kite semua keje kat company atas tu :P
The political environment at my workplace is driving me crazy. It demotivated me big time.
Sometimes I want to contribute my level best, but when this type of problem kan it makes u feel alaa buat apa la nak kerje rajin-rajin bukannya management nak recognised ke apa ke. Yela keje macam org giler, stayback sume apa salahnya appreciate la staff, jangan la buruk siku... isk sakit hati betul :(
Kalau ikutkan hati mmg nak berhenti keje je. But when I think long term commitment kena la saba, at least I have to stay here for a year, nasib baik la ada blog hee hee :)
Ada hikmah kut sebalik benda-benda camni :)
InsyaAllah mintak Allah makbulkan doa i, hari tu sakit skrg ni dah baik,
bulan ni sengkek next few months ada la duit balik :)
Amin.
Monday, November 21, 2005
G-U-I-L-T-Y
I AM A BAD, BAD PERSON.
Maybe I deserved this.
Huh !!!
*Sigh*
It is hard to make everybody around you happy especially when you dont have the power to take control over the situation. Your heart/instinct desperately want to make them happy but the truth is you failed and hurt them unnecessarily. Well maybe i deserve this, or tell me Guest? how do you overcome this situation if you were in my shoes.
The ironic part every weekend is either fully-booked attending hari raya open house or hosting one. Mind you, IT IS SCHOOL HOLIDAY WHICH MEANS WEDDING CEREMONIES SEASON. My god, and at this age (26) is the peak time when everybody decided to get married. It's like a circle and one by one of your friends tied the knot and start the wonderful marriage life.
Let me brief you my situation.
Last saturday I had 2 wedding invitations and 2 open house invitations. All the invitations start from noon until 4/5 pm.
One of the wedding is from my ex-skool mate Ms Azna. She is getting married to her boyfriend whom she has known for the past 7/8 years. Me and Ms Azna grew up in the same neighbourhood, we went to the same school and share the circle-friends. We keep in touch on and off but we still do see each other once in a while despite my err family schedules. Her wedding reception is at Dewan Guthrie, Bukit Jelutong.
The other wedding invitation is from my friend Ms Khadijah whom I known back in Loughborough, UK. Ms Khadijah is my senior and she graduated in 2001. She went back for good to Malaysia and I havent met her ever since. The only way we keep in touch via MSN Messenger and now we sms or call occasionally. She told me several times, and insist that I come to her reception. I told her I will come InsyaAllah. Her wedding reception is at UIA, Gombak.
When I received the third invitation for last saturday I told her I barely can make it for this one. She insist I still come and out of politeness I told her "I will talk to my husband and see if we can squeeze yours late evening". This lady is my office mate, I chat with her via (YM) almost everyday and we seem to get along very well. She desperately want a female friend (being the only programmer in her dept), me on the other hand, want a friend whom I can share my cyber-interest and mundane life. She lives in Klang.
Saturday came. And errrr it didnt turned out as I have expected. In fact I am feeling guilty until now and dont know what should I do to make it up.
We arrived at Dewan Guthrie, Bukit Jelutong around 2pm. I was surprised and excited to meet my old skoolmates again. We update on our life, gossips, take loads of picture and before I realised it is nearly 4pm. Uhhhh I panicked, I told my hubby and he told me we cant make it to the other kenduri/open house. I have to go see a doctor and she is only available from 3-5pm. In the end I attended only ONE kenduri kahwin and NONE open house invitation :(
I am a bad friend. *sigh*
I missed the opportunity to see Ms Khadijah in her wedding dress. I feel bad if she really has been waiting/expecting me. I still have her wedding present in my house untouched, and nicely wrap with a small congratulations card on it.
My office mate doesnt want to chat with me today.
I sms-ed her last weekend and she didn't reply. I know she really hope I could make it to her raya open house.
The problem is, I do want to go but DH is the one who make the decision. After all he is the one who is driving, he controls the journey as well as our plan for the day.
DH told me it is impossible for me to attend all the kenduri/open house.
Perhaps, I will make it if I dont have to go see the doctor ? Or perhaps it is better to come, although when the ceremony finished rather than didnt come at all. Like the saying "Better late than never" :(
Thursday, November 17, 2005
Hari Raya Celebration 2005 in Subang Jaya
Baba nak duit raya ?? Danial nak beli choo-choo train thomas
Chelamat Hari Yaya, Mummy
Mari makan-makan time ni la nak makan sungguh-sungguh.FORGET ABOUT YOUR DIET, ada excuse hari ni first day raya.
Sesi makan lagi part 2, hmm ada laksa, nasi impit, kuah kacang, rendang ayam, kuih raya, yum yum
Posing manja danial dengan ibu die hee hee :)
Yay, Let's go to nenek house, my office :)
Danial ngorat cousin die, Aqilah :)
Disheartened with Modblog
I have upload all the raya pictures celebrated in KL as well as in Penang and save it in my computer with hope to upload it for my next entry today.
Unfortunately each time when I try to open my modblog I got this
The connection was refused when attempting to contact lazydaisy79.modblog.com
BUMMER !!! MODBLOG IS DRIVING ME CRAZY :(
Tuesday, October 18, 2005
More about ME
You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education
You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.