Friday, October 17, 2008

Looking from the positive side :)

The twin sisters are going to be 7 months old come this 19 oct.
sekejap je kan, we have survived the first 6 months, so i guess for the next few months it is workable, well i hope by next year when they reach 1 yr old, they are more independent so less hectic for us sikit. i have plan how to make it work :P

adam is 2 years old and danial going to be standard one next year.
apart from adam mischievous to test his sisters capabilities either strong or not by pijak his adik every now and then, suap his adik his lunch/breakfast when his adik approached him or play with them as if they are big enough/strong enough to play with him when they are just crawling and starting to communicate with each other.

recently during our annually neighbours get-together cum raya open house my neighbours told me that she is planning to go to HUKM to meet up this famous prof who can help her to conceive twin. She told me the fees is around 1.5k to 12k. "Cheap kan, "she said. i think it is using IVF treatment and banyak orang dah buat and it is guarantee you can get a twin, triplets or quadruplets..lagi banyak bayar lagi banyak la dapatnya :P

why am i sharing this ? well i told my mom and she said you should bersyukur banyak banyak you got it naturally or more likely by *accident* hahahhhahah because the third pregnancy is unplanned.

well i am bersyukur and i should bersyukur banyak-bannyak rather than whine eh,
a) my kids are healthy and they are our rezeki
b) that Allah makbul my doa for me to have a baby girl and He gave me two :)
c) i have a supportive hubby who try to help me as much as he can without complaining
d) my maid is helpful too although sometimes ada benda yg i kena pejam mata sebelah jela
e) my parents try to help us every now and then. they always say "kesian on us"
f) my inlaws do help us also when we our backup plans didnt work out as planned but since they live up north susah sikit la nak tolong tu
g) although i am working full time, my boss is very, very understanding. THANK GOD. i have fully utilized my annual leave, every now and then ada je benda "family matters" nasib baik la dia OK, as long as all the tasks/assignment pending is completed :) if i were to work in the old company jangan harap la, mesti dah lama kena brainwash dengan lady boss tu.

when people sees our family they always say "seronoknye" tapi my dad kata seronok tengok bukan seronok jaga :P

but you know it is definitely seronok to shop for the little girls. and i am not the only one yg have fun dressing them up. last raya the twin mak ngah bought this super cute custom made dresses just for the twin, terharu mummy :) yg sakit nya because everything is double expenses. but mommy always ended up shopping for 4...hee hee sebab rasa unfair pulak kalau asyik shopping for twin je.

so i am thankful and grateful for what i have now.
alhamdullilah :)

10 comments:

Nadia said...

up and down of our life... gitu la...

as you prev entry.. i always told to myself,
"jgn terlalu melihatkan kesenangan orang lain sampai terlupa nikmat yg telah kita miliki" but at the sametime tidak lupa terus berusaha utk mencapai kesenangan...

always told my hubby.. i don't want to get rich.. what i really wish in my life is kesenangan...
kesenangan utk makan minum dan lain2 perkara asas..
kesenangan bagi menyediakan pendidikan dlm membesarkan anak2.. hingga tak perlu meminta-minta dari org..
kesenangan - dihindari dari dugaan yg tak tercapai dek kudrat...
senang cerita... kesenangan dalam melalui liku hidup... cabaran itu mesti ada tapi harap2 diberi petunjuk bagi jalan penyelesaian...

for me we as muslim, sgt beruntung, we always know where we should go when we have a problem.. ALLAH.. HE will be with US all the time, just pray on what you wish and berusaha menyelesaikannya..

eh panjang plak.. boleh buat blog entry..

أم الليث said...

alhamdulillah :) dpt tgk positive side

tp tak salah kita nak mengadu atau cerita apa yg kita duk experience. bkn maknanya tak bersyukur.. in fact, lepas duk luahkan semua feeling2 negative, kita bertambah bersyukur dgn apa yg kita dah ada kan

zan said...

betullah apa aliya n nad cakap...when there are downturns, we must reflect dan ucapkanlah syukur as the burden that lies on our shoulder are still manageable...

i pun pernah jugak fikir untung u dpt your current boss, so it was all worth it you jumped to this new co kan...

Gartblue said...

*angguk-angguk*

betul betul betul ... life is never straightfoward .. i completely understand u on the seronok tengok, but yang menjaganya lain ..

pl used to say how nice we are to be twins .. but sometimes ppl forget, twins do have feelings too .. but then again, we always talk about the little snags of having to share everything, having to always being a double, never an individual .. and worse during exams .. the fear of one twin doing worse than the other sometimes paralyses me .. scary ..

but on the bright side .. twins do grow up stronger in mind .. and they are such adorable pair too ..


I'm so proud of you, girl!

*hugs*

Mommy Ummar said...

*gulp*

terasa kt batang idung kejap psl nk gi jumpa doc nk conceive twin. sshhh..
tp tht neighbour wasnt me lah kan.
hehe..and anyway i dh batalkan niat tu.
huhuuu.

anyway, i'm so happy for you. afterall now u've adjusted ur daily routines pretty well now, and u sounds better and happier.
good!

:)

mosh said...

some people are actually willing to pay to have twins? this is a couple who couldn't conceive at all or just would love to have twins? macam-macam ada.

Anonymous said...

hey hey i found you.

i went to your other blog plak.

need to catch up on your story. eheheh

Diah said...

alhamdulillah.. :)

Lazydaisy said...

mamarawks : totally agree with you, betul betul. thanks for sharing.

aliya : hari tu i pegi open house and my friend says tak menang tangan la nak jaga twin ngan two boys ni so i guess it is really tough. well i am sharing how crazy/tough my life is at the moment but you know mommy's got to do what mommy's got to do, and there is no failure option for me so i guess kena stay strong and be positive about this. kalau pikirkan penat and how to keep my sanity level mmg la tensen dibuatnya.

zan : yes, alhamdullilah dapat boss ok this time

gartblue : yepp true. they really indeed an adorable pair. and im sure you and your twin are adorable too. your mom must be proud of you guys.

ery : oh you pun ada berhajat ke. hee hee, oh i am still struggling sis.

mosh : yepp true. my neighbour tu ada 2 kids. agaknya dia nak express heheh :P

rotidua : welcome to my cyber home

bdp : :)

elisataufik said...

yelah, I seronok baca tapi i rasa kalau i kena jaga, tak seronok... hee hee